The vast majority of them wear fake hair, or chemically straighten it. They do this because they know they would not be attractive with their own natural hair.
Whenever I see one walking around with her natural hair, I instantly have more respect for her. I reject all the black women who come to me with fake hair, because it misrepresents who they really are, more-so than makeup would. Its probably more fake than even wearing a padded bra. Long, straight hair is the mark of femininity for women in the eyes of most men.
You also are not allowed to pull on it during sex, whereas with an asian indian or white female, you could. This is very very limiting in the bedroom, as there are only a certain amount of sexual positions you could do. Not fun. Or, she could take it off and look hideous but she would never do that...
Explain to me how waling around with straight hair doesn't make you fake if your black. Is it not self-hate? The only reason you look remotely attractive is because of a EUROPEAN/INDIAN feature that isn't yours...
Woah... I am black, I wear my hair natural, and I am attractive. ...I never wore weave but had braids when I was younger and used to chemically str8ten my hair. Honestly, I didn't know any better. When you are younger your parents pretty much influence you or you want to fit in.
I wasn't fake when my hair was chemically str8end and I am still not fake now that I am natural. Just because someone has fake hair doesn't make their personality fake or the person fake. Every race known wears fake hair or has considered it and know it as hair extensions aka weave aka fake hair pieces...etc. If they haven't considered it, they know what it is.
Celebrities wear fake hair all the time to make their hair appear fuller or longer. And there are different types of hair. There is really isn't "fake hair" it's just hair that isn't theirs or synthetic. Most people use real human hair because all synthetics burn when heat is applied.
There is more to sex than pulling hair. Where are you from? You can't single out black people because every other race is also using hair add-on alternatives, it's just blacks were the first ones to make it popular. Go and find a white/asian chick with hair extensions and she will not want you to pull her hair either.
I am natural and love it. I don't and neither does anyone else have to have EUROPEAN/INDIAN features to be attractive. Those are your likes in a female so keep you bias opinions to your self because you sounds stupid w/o the facts.
Get at me bro!... I'm not scared and hiding as anonymous
I wear my hair straight w/o chemicals. I don't hate myself or my hair, I want have more options than afro and braids. If what you say is true then everyone who wears extensions, dyes their hair, or curls/ straightens their hair is fake. People change things about themselves all the time, it doesn't always have to be self-hate.
You don't know how many Asian and scene girls I see with fake hair. They're not trying to be pretty by looking European or Indian. They get tired of looking the same everyday. Same for black girls.
There are multiple reasons for wearing weaves. Like last summer I wore a weave because I had to do summer gym and I didn't want to have to wash and comb through my hair everyday I went swimming. With the weave I could just run some water over it and be on my way. It had nothing to do with appearance.
Wearing a weave doesn't make you fake. I do agree it has something to do with how black women are viewed in society. We are even told by some black men that they don't want natural hair on a black women or don't even want us period.
I've been natural for almost two years and I really had to come to terms with myself to do it. I'm not saying weaves are wrong. But the good thing about our hair is that it's so versatile. We don't really need to have a relaxer to straighten our hair. It can be done with a flat iron or hot comb. The next day, we can walk in with curls.
When I was transitioning between chemical and natural hair, I had to protect it. How did I do it ? I wore different types of weaves until my hair was ready to be fully natural. My hair was braided and tucked away under the weave against the harsh elements.
So to sum this all up, reasons for wearing a weave differ from person to person.
Plenty of other race women chemically straighten their hair, even some of my family members do. I flat iron my hair, does that make me fake? What about other races who chemically straighten their hair?
'Explain to me how waling around with straight hair doesn't make you fake if your black. Is it not self-hate?'
black girls are not the only ones with curly kinky hair, and any girl who straightens her hair does not necessarily mean she is self hating. EVERY person has their own reason for how they dress and do their hair, makeup, act. It has nothing to do with race.
you shouldn't judge all black girls who straighten their hair chemically or otherwise just because some might have self esteem issues.
as you probably noticed, I haven't put in my opinion about wigs, but that's because I can't relate to that as much.
k so first of your talking about how you have more respect for her if she's natural then you go on to say that if she took it off she would look hideous and the only thing that makes her remotley attractive is because of a european/indian feature you just contradicted yourself there...
this whole article is offensive and you obviously had to be an "anonymous user" so that knowone can know who you really are so I guess your being fake too because your "misrepresenting who you really r" just like you said in your articile I'd like to see you go up to a black women and ask her that question oh wait that's right you wouldn't have the balls to do it that's y you have to do it over the internet
Btw I'm black and I don't have fake hair I used to wear braided extensions in winter because it'd keep me warm not because of what you seem to think is "self-hatred" what to you may seem like a weave can actually be a girls natural hair I know a lot of people think that I wear a weave just because I don't have "out of control frizzy hair" obviously you have no idea what your talking about ignorant people like you get on my nerves
You need to stop hating on black girls. I'm white and think they have some valid points. Is it wrong for them to want to fit in with more American looking hair? It's only natural to want to when most of the "ideals" of beauty are presented with long, sleek hair. Plus black people aren't the only ones who do these kinds of things. Look how many white people get botox, lipo, implants, and flat iron their hair. Their hair didn't look like that to begin with, are they fake, too?
Also, you don't have to have European/Indian features to be attractive, that's your opinion, look outside your bubble. Other cultures have much different opinions of what's attractive. Racist people like you give whites a bad name.
Not ALL black women are fake, no. And just because a black womans hair is straight doesn't mean she should get less respect; its kind of like in the sixties when WHITE women wore AFROS, isn't it?Think hard about THAT sentence. And even if it is straight doesn't mean it has chemicals. My hair is straightened out, but I don't use perm at all, mainly because its a preference, not because I think id be less attractive with a natural. If a black woman thinks its easier to take care of her hair when its straight then let her wear her hair straight, if she thinks its easier to wear it as a natural then wear a natural.
And sometimes Black women have a reason to wear a weave. My aunt had to have brain sugery, so they cut off a lot of her hair and made it uneven, like the hair on the sides were long, but she had very little hair where they had cut in the back; so she used a weave to hide the spot until the hair was long enough to have a natural.
you can't just pin point one race, I live in the uk and I no a ton of WHITE girls who chemically straighten there hair, extensions, do the whole fake eyelash thing, eyebrow threading, fake nails, fake tan does that mean that ALL us white english girls are fake? maybe their not comfertble with their own hair. your coming across as racist. you clearly have an issue with black girls so why have sex with them and slag them off about 'there hair you can't pull' during sex. get a life mate
I agree with blufrenzy93. Black women wear weave for different reasons, not necessarily to be fake. And there are plenty of white women and Asians and women of other ethnicity's that wear extensions or even weaves. Your looking at it all wrong.
lol , not every black woman is "fake" . Your generalizations are way off.
No but I know why some people might think that...lol
no, but you are
I'm part black. many of my relatives are part black. We are black caribbeans. Most of the women in my family who are black do straighten their hair. I do, but I don't need to use relaxer as I have "good hair." I don't wear a weave as I have thick hair as it is.
I colour my hair. I have very light skin as I am mostly white, so I don't bleach. I don't wear contacts, none of my relatives do, and we have brown eyes.
We straighten our hair because we like how it looks. I have half straight half curly hair, and it doesn't look right unless I straighten it.
It seems like you are just looking for a reason to put black women down. Instead of derisively calling us all fake, why not try to understand why so many black women straighten? It feels like you're either damned if you do and damned if you don't. If you do straighten your hair "you're a fake black woman who is trying to be white" but if you don't straighten your hair "your natural hair is ugly and unfeminine". Can you blame a woman for wanting to fit into society's standards?
Other races of women tan their skin, bleach their hair, buy lip plumping gloss, wear makeup, inject botox, wear butt pads and chicken cutlets and padded bras. Why not put them down also? What is it about black women that bothers you so much that you want to insult us for straightening our hair? Why do you even care what black women do with our hair since you don't like us anyway? You don't like kinky hair and you don't like chemically straightened/flat ironed hair so what's the issue? Find a nonblack woman and be happy.
I straighten my hair because it's prettier like that. My hair's not nappy nappy, but not as silky as I'd like it. Oh well, we can't all be perfect. I know I'm not going to stop flat ironing just so I will gain the unneeded "respect" of a boy who hates me anyway. Have a nice day honey and try not to stress out about women's hair styling options.
Well to be honest I don't think this is fair. I'm black and I wear a weave because I have trichotillomania (if you don't know that that is then look it up). I would never go out with just my hair, I would actually just be ashamed. But what annoys me is your immediate judgement on all 'black women' being fake. You do realize that a lot of other races also do wear fake hair, If black girls are fake because they wear fake hair, then why aren't white girls fake because they get fake tans, why aren't chinese girls fake because they get double eye-lid surgery, why aren't Indian girls fake when they get skin lightening creme's? What about hair dye, don't you think that looks fake too? Or is that all OK because it dosen't affect how good they are in bed :/, your clearly a virgin. Hair doesn't affect how good a person is in bed...idiot.
And since when does a person's hair define a person? What happens to cancer patients, without their hair do they suddenly have no personality?
Long straight hair is the mark of feminity in most women? I can show you A LOT of unfeminine girls with long straight hair, and a lot of feminine girls with short curly hair.
My hair doesn't define the way I look. It's kept short and is not mine but and I am still attractive.
But we really don't care if you as an individual don't find us attractive. You seem really shallow and judgmental, I can't understand why anyone would want an ignorant personality like yours.
"Long, straight hair is the mark of femininity for women in the eyes of most men." really? is this a fact that is in wikipidia? Our American culture and media has pushed so hard that "white" beauty is the standard of beauty. Some black women want to straighten their hair because they feel it is more appealing to men. It may be true for some men but I must say that black women have been blessed with more beauty then white women. most black women I know do not have to wear any foundation. they have more beautiful skin overall. they have a more curvy and beautiful butt. If I were to choose between being a black woman or white woman I would choose to be black. There are some black women that you can pull their hair in the bedroom. If the woman does not want or cannot have her hair pulled that really limits what can be done in the bedroom? you can't accomplish a lot of sexual positions because you cannot pull their hair? Your question or whatever this was is very confusing. Black girls are not fake. If you include the whole package of hair nails and skin I would have to say that black women are way less fake then white women.-just my humble opinion and I did not want anyone to think that my comments included everyone white or black. my answer is based upon my experience
Well I would say yes and no. To me in general, yes because attitude is not a replacement for intelligence. and with all that other fack sh*t its even worse. So I just don't date them. I am pretty turned off by blacks. But some times I see a big ass and I'm swayed but will not go for it. I've been with some black chicks I'm not racist just prejudice to liking other chicks.