you really need to be more confident within yourself. when someone thinks they look good or they are at least comfortable in their own skin, it changes the way people preceive them. it's like going into a job interview. two guys have the same good stuff - resume, education, respect/knowledge for the company - but the guy who gives a firm handshake, looks you in the eye, and squares his shoulders gets the job over the guy who's slouching or shaking with nerves. you have to find a girl and tell her 'look, this is me and I'm a great guy and I think you're great, so lets make it happen'. I mean, don't literally say it out loud, but say it in your swagger, in the way you carry yourself. hope that helps :)
Well, I don't know about anyone else, but I don't discriminate! lol.
Like Skittledittle said, you're quite cute.. and look very personable. You just have to learn to own it. Confidence is sexy.. if you're too worried about what others are thinking regarding the color of your skin, something you obviously have no control over, then you are not going to feel comfortable and look quite uneasy. Hence, that girls may be intimidated to come up and talk to you. Learn to be happy in the skin you're in, and once that happens, the ladies will come. Good Luck! Oh, and remember, the darker the chocolate, the richer the taste! [;
You are a good looking man! The girls you are talking to are racist fools. I don't get being attracted to one race and being attracted to another. I hear a lot of people say that, but I have no specific race that I'm attracted to. People need to be more open. Sad. Sorry the girls in your neighborhood suck. They don't know what they're missing!
You're not ugly at all. In fact, you're very handsome. The problem is you are going after the wrong types of girls. Why do you go for girls that reject you? First, in your mind's eye, you need to know exactly what kind of girl you want. What does she look like, what are her values, how does she dress, what does she do for a living, is she honest, etc. Once you know exactly what kind of girl you want, you'll be able to focus and pick the right one. Also, you need more self confidence. If you give off the air of lack of self confidence, people will pick that up.
Your cute. And black men are not the least desirable unless people actually believe stereotypes. Least desirable=black women. And I'm black and saying that. some of the comments I hear about our race is just disheartening.
Some people aren't very fond of dating someone of another race. It's really their problem, don't take it personally. And you're good-looking if you ask me. Again, don't take it personally, you just haven't picked out the right girl who thinks right! Be patient, and you'll find the right girl. (:
most girls won't date blacks or most girls won't date you?
do you think any girl would not date denzel washington? will smith? usher? , etc
girls do not care about race in general. if they meet a guy who has what they are really looking for - confidence, charisma, good character, and breaks through whatever racial stereotype they might have, they aren't going to let race get into the way, just what I've noticed.
The least desireable are black girls... think about it. White girls sometimes go for black dudes if they are interested but black girls never go for white guys or they do it really rarely its just part of life.
You're not bad looking. Work on your approach to women. They care more about personality most of the time anyway. If you're getting rejected by women based on your looks alone you're in to the wrong type of women man. Don't worry it will all work itself out just focus on being confident and proud of who you are, not how the women think of you.