I txt my girl like 9:30 to see if she still want to go out or not , she txt me back and said '' I'm sorry ,i'm at a party ''
so I txt her back '' oh , I'm surprise , have fun ''
We planned to go out tonight and she just change it with out even telling me ,
do anyone have any explanation for this , I mean if I didn't contact her she wouldn't even bother her self to let me konw that she's at a party ,
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Okay by 'barty' I'm assuming you mean party right?
Sounds to me like she's losing interest. That's probably not what you want to hear but if she can just blow you off like that and reply to your confrontation with a simple 'sorry', then somethings up. Which seems odd because you're 28 and that's more of the style of like an 8th grader, but that's what I would assume is happening. You should talk to her and see if she has a good, plausible explanation. But if she doesn't actually feel bad and it seems like she intentionally broke your plans without telling you, then you should just end things.
PS: Is English your first language.? Lol. I'm just curious.0