I think you girls are totallly crazy and freaks. HOwever, I've done a lot of work on myself, now that I know more about me, I understand more about you girls...it seems to me we are not that different. If I look confusing, often is because I AM confused, same goes with you. And I think you girls make one mistake: arrogance. You think you know yourselves, but you don't, you don't make sense not even to yourselves. Same goes for a lot of guys, though in general I think it's the girls who are more random and unpredictable (and by large!). BUT, now that I know more in depth the dinamics of what goes inside, even behaviours which before seemed complitely crazy, now have a logic. You are italian, I bet you studied socrates: know yourself;)
it's becouse our brains are wired differently, men think and process the world around them through cause and effect, generating solutions for problems and are introverted emotionaly, women are more process thinking focusing on the experience and are extroverted emotionaly. This is why women see talking and openly exressing emotion and discussing feelings as important where men are prefer to talk to fix and view feelings and emotions as either problems or somthing to be "fixed"
guys think in boxes, dealing one subject at a time aimed at the big picture. girl think as one large mass of intertwined wires, everything connected and detailed. also guys save our emotions for select things, it may even take a wile for you as a person to become one of those things.
Ummm... Psychology is the study of understanding people, and why they do the things they do... so, it has nothing to do with you not being a woman, you just don't understand anything about psychology, or you might be a bad judge of character.
Same way boys don't understand girls I guess. The only way you would understand boys is either you suddenly become one, you really get into the head of one or sit tight and listen to lengthy explanation by some researcher.
The major difference is that girls tend to form a stronger emotional bond more quickly. I always see questions like "why did he lose interest in me?" Well guys want sex. Girls then have sex with guys. But after sex, the guys don't feel any closer to the girls, whereas after having sex a girl may even fall in love with a guy whom she previously only had slight feelings for. Girl lets her self be used. Guy gets bored. Tada guy and girl are no longer seeing each other.
Just like French people can understand Spanish people, and vice-versa.
because women are clouded with their emoitions and feelings and can't let much go. men use logic and think things out without too much emotion. in field where emotions run high such as ex. medical proffesions males are in much need because they give a better understanding of medicine and can treat patients better because they don't let emotions get into what they need to do. women always make a big deal of everything and can't let things go, apparent because the suicide rates are overwhelmingly done by females than males. women should just stay home and cook like the should be doing, not much thinking there
It's pretty simple, really: we're biologically different in so many ways, that even our THINKING is different. Simply put, we have just as much difficulty understanding you, as you do us. It's how it's been since the beginning of time. It's just something we all have to work at throughout our lives.
Heck, if it was easy enough to explain in a simple answer, then sites like this wouldn't even exist! :D So, sorry, it's pretty much a mystery, but at least you aren't alone in wondering! ;D
You need to let men open up for you to understand them. They're actually very straightforward and simple minded creatures..., just their facial expressions alone can tell a lot. Girls on the other hand, are harder for men to comprehend because we play a lot of games, even I will admit that.
Because we think guys are from our point of view our from the way that we see the world, and as you may or not have seen, its quiet different. Even our brains are biologically different. The way we see things its very different. We are very good picking up details, guys just look at the big picture or generalize. They are more visual individuals, we are more emotional beings or guide more by other senses.
ok first of all girls aren't complicated, guys are just too dumb to understand us. anyway all guys are confusing in some ways. whether it may be personality or how they act or whatever it is. our brains function differently so its harder for us to understand each other.
i think its because we girls are so complicated and we never come out with exactly how we feel. and guys are USUALLY pretty simple and they say how they feel. Being girls, we assume everyone is as complicted as we are, and even if a boy comes out and says "i feel..." then we think that he really means something else. even if he doesnt.