You may be sending off vibes of un-approachability. I have found that too many people bank on good looks to get the guy or the girl. But a less hot gal who is easy to talk to and friendly will do much better than the hot girl who won't make eye contact and whose shyness makes them appear aloof and unattainable.
I used to think guys were so fearless that nothing would stop them from asking out a girl they were attracted to. That may be true in many other areas of their life, but not in love. A lot of confident guys melt around the girl of their dreams. Worse, you might not appear to be the girl of someone's dreams if they think you are pretty but cold.
I don't know if this does apply to you, only you can answer that, but take it to heart and think about this. Good luck!
Oh god, ignore the people saying this is bitchy. No human is 100% PC and perfect. We all have questions like this. Just last month my ex tried to win me back, then he stopped calling and I was like ? as it turns out he started dating another girl. Who is less attractive than I am and someone I assumed was not his type. Whaaaa?
Just flip the scenario -- what if a gorgeous man was sitting next to an average guy and the average guy smiled warmly at you-- introduced himself and then initiated genuine conversation and the hot guy just stared ahead stone faced not talking. At the end of the night would you ask the hot guy out? Being approachable and good at small talk goes a long way.
Also, are the guys who are asking your friend out men that you are attracted to? If not, then the point is moot.
nice there , calling your friend ugly. she pro has a nicer personality and is more outgoing. you need to stop comparing your self to your friend , every one is different and unique ,if your that desperate tell her how you feel and many shell give you some tips on how to talk to guys .