as a guy I see so many good looking girls but I've rarely told a girl I think she's attractive or hot because I feel like they will think I'm being insincere
how often do you tell a guy you think he's attractive? not a guy you're dating or know very well but an acquaintance or a stranger. also not a guy who you feel bad for or has low self esteem. how often do you tell a guy that you think he is genuinely attractive?
I actually did it for the first time the other night. I was at a club and there was this really hot security guy. And I figured why not, its not like something will happen between us. I kind of wanted to do something new and yes I was drinking but I didn't have a lot to drink. I was very scared so I said "hey sorry but just wanted to tell you that my friend and I think you're hot" He smiled and said thanks and I walked off. Was a funny night but it felt good to have the courage to do that. Not sure if I ever will again lol
I agree with your comment about thinking that it would seem insincere... if I guy told me he thought I was attractive, I'd be flattered, but I wouldn't be as flattered if it was a guy who told every girl she was pretty (unless he was just really nice and that was his personality). Honestly, I don't often tell guys I think they're attractive unless I like them and I want them to know that. I think it means more that way, since guys know I don't say it a lot.
I've done it a handful of times, but it's not a great icebreaker. By the way, I would love it if the next guy I date tells me I'm attractive. It hasn't happened yet, and I don't care if the compliment is sincere or not.
I've done it very, very rarely. In fact, I've only done it once or twice to strangers over the Internet. I'm not good around guys and find that I sometimes don't have enough confidence, so I tend to not say anything.
I do say it when I have the chance but once I told a guy that looked cute when I was drunk. I just blurted it out, it was funny because when I am drunk I listen more and am very quiet.
Ummm never. Why would I do that?
I don't see the need for it. And I think that would just make them feel annoyed since no one likes some random stranger coming up to them and saying they're hot. Makes no sense. Why would I bother someone with a silly thing like that. Especially someone I don't know...
I don't. It's uncomfortable and I don't want him to think I'm coming onto him because I'm not. I don't like to give compliments about looks to guys unless we're seeing each other.
As a guy, I've had about a third of girls that I've talked to at parties in college tell me some version of that I'm good looking. That's probably an overestimate, because I tend to go for more assertive girls who are more likely to do that.