I trust my girlfriend to go out clubbing with her friends, but I don't see a need for her to wear short skirts, really tight low-cut shirts, push-up bras, tight dresses, etc. when she goes. If she is really just going to have a good time than what's wrong with a pair of jeans and a cute top? Is it really necessary to get super sexy when you're going out the the girls? Especially if there are (single) guys she knows going as well?
because that's how other women will be dressing at the club and so she wants to be as hot or hotter than them. it boosts a girls self esteem when they can look better. and at clubs that's just how it seems you're supposed to dress no matter who you're going with. if it bothers you, casually ask her yourself. its not like she'll freak out because you ask. just say "you always dress so sexy when you go to the clubs. why?" if she wants to know why you're asking just say I don't know I've just noticed it... good luck.
IDK, maybe she wants guys to stare at her. maybe she's insecure. If my guy isn't with me, like you said, jeans and a nice shirt. I don't want unwanted attention drawn to me. I only want to look sexy for my boyfriend. I think girls that dress as hoochie mamas just want attention. Cause I can tell ya, that sh*t ain't comfortable to wear! lol
sounds like your lacking self esteem and confidence..with a tad of jealousy
because they want to feel beautiful & also they just want to hang with their friends.
dressing up is part of the ritual. she wants to feel and look sexy. its not about attracting other guys. other men looking is an obvious byproduct of her looking sexy, but that most likely isn't her purpose. she is young and attractive probably so why shouldn't she feel an dlook sexy? how out of place would she look wearing jeans and a cute top to a club when everyone else is dressed hot? you wouldn't go to class in pjs with the footies on them lol. part of the unspoken dress code at the club is for ladies to look sexy and hot. she might have a boyfriend but she's not dead lol
1. She wants to beat the competition. Other women will be dressing sexy, so she wants to receive compliments and get attention from both sexes. Think of it as a way to seek power in the sexual market. Or think of it as a way to find value in her physical looks. She may think she's ugly in one way or another, so she wants to go out looking hot to find out how attractive she really is. Or to just beat the other girls.
2. She wants to use guys. She'll talk and have a casual conversation with men and get them to buy her drinks so she pays nothing. It's a way of using her looks to get free sh*t from those desperate @ss-kissers without spending a dime.
3. She wants to make a good impression. Meeting new people while out = she wants to present her best self to make new friendships and gain connections.
4. Sadly, she may be trying to hook up with another guy. Who knows but only her. If she's been neglecting your relationship and not spending so much time with you, then you may be a temporary thing until she finds better. A guy with more value who's not kissing her butt and buying her things. If you haven't had sex in a good while, then she may be getting it from someone else.
However, don't be insecure about it. If she's not fulfilling your requests or needs, then talk about it some more. If I were you, I'd go out solo, dressed well, to talk to new girls and become friends. That way, you have other options if your girl isn't available.