Hi guys, I'm writing an article for my blog, and I just wanted to know, what 10 things give a guy the green light to want to have a long term relationship with a woman and vice versa. Please try to make your answers a little deeper than just good-looks, I'm really looking for what men and women want in their partners as far as personality and mind goes. ! hope your all well!
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1. The ability to carry on a conversation at many different levels.
By that I she can have philosophical discussions, and other types of intelligent conversation, but is also capable of talking about silly inconsequential things, and make them seem very interesting.
2. a compatible sense of humor.
3. Generally a happy person.
I wouldn't want someone to base their happiness on me, that is a lot of pressure, and I certainly don't want to be involved with someone who is constantly feeling down.
4. Some sort of talent.
A woman that has some sort of skill beyond talking and looking pretty. She doesn't need to be a great musician, or a great artist or anything like that. It can something as simple as being good at her job, or being a decent cook.
5. Needs a man sometimes.
I don't necessarily mean in the bedroom, but guys like it when they are called upon to perform manly duties. Even if it is simple stuff like killing spiders, opening pickle jars and fixing leaky faucets.
6. Above average intelligence.
Like being talented, the standards aren't too high here, it's fine if she sucks at math, or makes spelling mistakes, but as long as we can talk without the conversation making me want pull my hair out, it's all good.
She must be a good person at heart, not a saint, but greedy or selfish girls are a turnoff
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confident and humility
I know these seem contradictory, but they aren't necessarily. I like it when a woman is confident when she knows what is going on and is in control, but isn't afraid to show her weaknesses and admit mistakes