We were out shopping and she was trying on some clothes and picked this nice blue dress so went into the changing rooms put it on and came back out to show me. But when she comes out she looks really unhappy with it and is shaking her head and tells me its not right.
So I say to her 'Well maybe they have it in a size bigger'.
And she says 'I don't like the colour, the size is perfect.'
She was moody with me the whole afternoon after that
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Well, I guess you don't have enough experience with women to see what you did wrong. Haha.
You actually told your girlfriend, "Maybe they have it in a size bigger."
In most girls' minds this translates to, "You're so fat that this dress size won't work, so let's get a bigger dress for fatties like you."
You called her fat, man. You called your girlfriend fat! Of course she's going to be moody! And even if you didn't mean it, which I'm pretty sure you didn't, you still said it and she interpreted it that way. In fact, she might even realize you were only trying to help, but it still hurts her.
I highly suggest getting some flowers, going over to her house, giving them to her and saying something like, "Sarah (whatever her name is), I'm so sorry about last weekend at the mall (or wherever you shopped). I can't even believe it took this long for me to realize how what I'd said hurt you, I'm really sorry. I guess I just don't have much experience with girls. I really do think you're beautiful!"
Something along the lines of that should patch things up.0