honestly do they matter? I see women who pick a hot guy who is handsome or at least has a fit body over guys who are more average looking but still healthy and have lots of friends, then a lot of the same women who say looks don't matter turn around and talk about how hot another guy is, so what is the real deal ? why do women say it doesn't matter but then turn around and say it does and dump average guys for hot ones ?
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I think looks matter to most people. Wouldn't you pick the hot girl who is beautiful and has a fit body over a more average looking girl if you could? Of course you would. Most guys would. Looks do matter, but what most girls mean is that it's not as important to us as personality and status. We will take the average looking guy (who is still attractive to us) over the hot guy if the average guy has a more attractive personality. Men in general don't put as much importance on personality as women do, so most will always pick the hot girl.
I understand why it might be frustrating, but if you're going to get angry at women for that kind of behavior, think about what you would do in that exact same situation. Given the choice between a woman that looks like your favorite celebrity or a woman that looks average, if you could have your pick, I'm pretty sure you'd pick the hot one too. And at least feel lucky in the fact that while looks do matter to a degree, they are not as important to us as they are to you guys. We're the ones that have to deal with the worst of it.1