i'm an ugly girl and I feel like guys treat prettier girls better.
my dad does sound tech for a strip club, I help him out sometimes, so I've gotten to be pretty good friends with some of the strippers. when we go out, guys will send them drinks all night long. they never have to pay. guys will hold doors open for them or pull out their chairs. waiters treat them more favorably than any other customers. often times I have seen them receive free coffee at starbucks or get out of a speeding ticket just for being so beautiful.
i am straight up ugly. I've been told that my whole life and I've never been on a date before or kissed (i'm 22). I work in retail, and sometimes I have customers that are so rude to me and treat me like scum. that's the way that most guys treat me. they don't bother to look at me when they speak to me (if they speak to me at all). they'll let the door they held open for my friends slam me in the face (once my nose was broken because of that). they often ignore me when I speak to them. one time a bartender was flirting with a hot girl, and when I tried to get a drink, he yelled "SHUT THE F*** UP, I'M BUSY HERE!" straight in my face.
I base this off of the fact since I'm not good looking, I don't want that to cause others from treating me less than others. So I make sure to treat girls in the same way no matter if they're pretty or not.
actually, believe it or not, sometimes I ignore the pretty girl or don't make a move on her because I f***ing feel guilty for the ugly girl, I can't help it, I'm attracted to the pretty one, and feel a bastard for that, but what the f*** can I do?
yeah iv seen this. Also some pretty girls treat pretty girls better but secretly hate them as they get jelous its pretty intense at my flat with the battle of the beauties turned from "nice to each other" to full on true hate for each other.
They totally do. I've sometimes been on the receiving end of the better treatment, getting freebies and being fussed over, and other times I've gotten less... respect, for want of a better word, when out with more attractive friends. I guess my attractiveness is up for debate.
it's totally true. my best friend is so pretty and guys are so nice to her. they buy her lunch, get her drinks, treat her like a princess, even if they're not going out with her. I'm ugly and guys are usually rude to me. they talk down to me like I'm a lesser human being and rarely treat me with basic respect and kindness.