What could I possibly say...I am too shy!! I hate that. I get even more shy with guys...as a result I'm afraid to talk to them, and when I even talk to them I talk a little and my face turns red! Can you give me advice about that problem and how to deal with it?
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You got to be a little creative. Everyone has common interests. But you don't want to say: "Oh, so you like sports, well I like to read." That's the end of your conversation. So... What kinds of music/ or particular style is he into? There's usually something there. And find a common interest before you try to flirt with him too much. Then things should flow and come together more in a way that seems natural. And like when you face gets red, that should be an indicator as to maybe having more control over your emotions. Or maybe having more patience and discipline going about how you're going to flirt with a guy.
So...(example) like I saw a girl I really liked and when I caught her looking in my direction and smiling, I said: The barber must have done a nice job w/ my haircut, but I can't really tell so I wouldn't know." She laughed, complimented me and the flirting game became give and take after that. If she didn't smile I would have never said it. It's stupid, I know. So start off simple, make eye contact and use what you observe to get him talking and the ball will start rolling, and pay attention to reactions, to see if you got their attention.0