Girls and Guys do You think Your body influence in your everyday attitudes? Like would You think You could get anyone from the opposite sex If You had a better body and wasn't self consious about it? Or do You think that wouldn't make much difference?
I just feel that I avoid many things because I am a bit chubby and I am embarassed about it... I ve been trying to loose weight all My life but I am never happy with the result...
I would be more confident and Outgoing with a hotter body
I went from being scrawny to putting on a lot of muscle... It does get me more attention, but meh I don't use it as a way to meet potential dates and I don't feel more confident. I agree with TGTBTH, I'd much prefer a more attractive face.
I used to be pretty chubby, and I felt exactly as you described. I felt like I was spending all my time waiting and hoping one day I would be "pretty" so I could go out and do fun things. But then I decided life was too short, and I didn't have time to wait for it. I decided that I was going to go out and have fun, and if people didn't like how I looked, that was their problem not mine. I started making going out to the club with my friends a fairly regular thing.
The funny part? In addition to mentally feeling better, now that I go out and actively do things, I've actually lost quite a bit of weight. In other words, going out and doing things instead of avoiding them is win-win.
I think I wouldn't want to be hotter, I know that sounds weird but I think the more average you are the more a person sees you for who you are. I mean for example, Megan Fox she's hot but many of the guys I know says she's gorgeous and would take their girlfriend over a super hot girl like Megan Fox anyday. I like who I am and I may have some body issues once in a while but people who concentrate more on other stuff than just body image, will find someone who'll appreciate them for who they are. I think it would be harder to find someone who truly wants to be with me when I have a hotter body, yes I'd get attention but I'd be seen as more of a
fantasy/object. All and all my life would be a lot more complicated.
If I had a better body, the "perfect" rockin' body, my life would change. and so would every one elses. this is my opinion and how I see it. all guys would hit on a girl, JUST for her body. maybe not every single guy, but most guys think that way. and that's why a lot of guys will be on her. you will have more haters because other girls will be jealous that you have all guys. guys would want to take control for your body. people will just stare at your body..
im glad I don't have that body because life would be harder for me.
yes when I was in 6th grade I was prob a size 8 OK I was pretty over weight, but the time I was in 8th I got myself down to a 4, now I'm in 9th and I'm a size two. and people treat me much better now. so yes it is easier and if you wanna message me or something I can tell you very easy weight loss tips, worked for me :)