if your to airdry it, be sure to do it in warm air so that you don't catch a cold or in some sever cases hypothermia. if your to use heated machines, such as straighteners. then be ready to possibly damage your hair as they will kill it slowly but surely.
personally I love long straight her because in my opinion I think its feminine and I like feminine girls that can still talk a good game but as for right now I happen to be into a girl whos got short short hair but seems to be really intelligent, which is great
i think guys shouldn't care as long as it looks nice.
i absolutely refuse to let my hair go natural because it has a weird texture and it bends in funny places that get in my eyes. I need to straighten it or blow dry it to make it just look normal, not even nice!