i really want an HONEST answer. is it looks more than personality? or confidence? or being hot?
cause I just feel like I'm flat out unattractive sometimes, cause guys shoo me away so fast. I'll talk to them, we'll have a good conversation.then when I try to hang out it's like I have the plague or something.
You've got to be kidding if that's really your picture.you must get hit on all the time. Are you fishing for compliments here?
But to answer your question, guys are attracted by women who don't play games, who are genuine and honest, and don't take advantage of their looks to get over on a lot of us who are easy prey for an attractive woman.
They pay attention even to guys who aren't 'cool' or drive hot cars.just for example.
But I still wonder what is going on here. Do you have a certain reputation? That's the only way guys wouldn't flock around you just because of your looks and you certainly know that.
For me I'm naturally first drawn to a girls looks. She doesn't even have to be hot really, I've been attracted to girls that I would consider a "5." I'm big into nice white teeth, nice eyes, skin, etc.
However I would not consider dating a girl who is hot but I couldn't stand her personality. Looks is always a good first impression, but a great personality always leaves a better thought in my head.
My last girlfriend was a model, beautiful and amazing in bed, but I just couldn't stand her personality and I was bored so I dumped her.
Um, you look pretty attractive if that's you in that picture. It could possibly be that the guy is shy and may feel intimidated by attractive girls, I mean I've kinda had that problem. I have liked this one girl for a while and I find it hard for me to approach her in public, especially if she is with her friends, as I don't know any of her friends. And she is definitely attractive so believe me, that can be intimidating. If you talk to guys a lot and are friendly to them I shouldn't think you'd have much of a problem, but then again, I'm not a girl haha.