i really want an HONEST answer. is it looks more than personality? or confidence? or being hot?
cause I just feel like I'm flat out unattractive sometimes, cause guys shoo me away so fast. I'll talk to them, we'll have a good conversation.then when I try to hang out it's like I have the plague or something.
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You've got to be kidding if that's really your picture.you must get hit on all the time. Are you fishing for compliments here?
But to answer your question, guys are attracted by women who don't play games, who are genuine and honest, and don't take advantage of their looks to get over on a lot of us who are easy prey for an attractive woman.
They pay attention even to guys who aren't 'cool' or drive hot cars.just for example.
But I still wonder what is going on here. Do you have a certain reputation? That's the only way guys wouldn't flock around you just because of your looks and you certainly know that.1