Why do people consider girls who look nice, dress in designer and name brand clothes/bags/shoes, have higher end make-up, etc. fake? I just do not get it! Like I get that really long fake nails or a super fake looking tan or obviously fake boobs or extensions (bad ones at least) etc. make a girl look fake, but I hear people complaining that because someone else looks nice and wears designer/name brand clothes they are automatically stuck-up, snotty, rich, fake, bitchy even if they are the nicest person in the world. I just don't get it.
Im not saying I don't judge people. Because everyone does, it's human instinct. But when I do judge someone I try to get to know them to. Just saying!
I wish I knew. It really annoys me too because people make these ridiculous assumptions without getting to know the person but it's human nature to judge people based off their looks. It would be a enormous lie to say that we never judge each other off of our first impressions.
This doesn't really answer your question but it reminded me of back in high school during my senior year, I took a sex ed class and we passed around papers with a classmates name on top and we would each write our first impression. I specifically remember 23/30 kids said I was either stuck up, rich, or high maintenance solely based on what the clothes, shoes, and purses that I had. The other seven said positive things just because I was already friends with them. It's irritating that I am constantly negatively judged just because I like the finer things and I am able to get those things but whatever. I still get judged about it to this day, but I will not change myself just to get a different opinion from others. I'm not here to please anybody else and you should always be your complete self.
OK, when I was in school, a lot of girls like you described WERE snotty, and I'm guessing that's why, but that's not right! I've met just as many girls who dress nice that way & are FAR from being stuck up! I'm sory if people are doing that to you. I agree, before judging someone, you should know them & judge them on facts, not assumptions...
It's not about what people would think. if you're confident about your appearance, you won't give a f**k and that will come out. So, the people who really understand where you're coming from will notice and acknowledge it.
HOWEVER, if you will keep looking for approval from everyone, you will be actually Stuck Up. and that too will come out. And then, no one will approve that.
IDC what brand it is... Seriously and I don't get paying for designer clothes unless the fabric is better or the quality of stitching is impeccable.. Girls constantly Tell me what such and such costs but they never glorify how it looks.. That's how I know MOST of the girls in designer are stuck up. They only wear it costs more. I highly doubt they check the stitching, the fabric, sturdiness, wash instructions the overall quality. They just want to shove it down my throat that it costs more. My stupid ass ex bought a $600 dollar bag from Gucci.. Only to discover that the dye on the inside rubbed off on EVERYTHING he put in the damn bag.. MORON... And note.. If two girls were wearing similar outfits one designer one not. I would probably pick the " knock off " Because they look the DAMN SAME.
they are just mad they can't afford it. I love my louis pursure and my burberry hat. just a few things I wear that are name brand. some people will say oh I would never spend that much for a purse. well that is good for you! they are just jealous. rock your name brands proud and don't worry about them calling you fake
honestly from someone who wears the most simple of clothes from walmart and still have people hate... chick just do you because no matter what you wil always have haters and people that will talk about you no matter what you wear or come off to them.
All people, even if you believe it or not, judge on looks. People with higher end make-up, designer and name-brand clothes and shoes etc., and other stuff, are just considered as snobs at first. If somebody talks to a girl like that and learn that she is not a bad person, the name calling might stop for people that that person knows, but the truth is that everyone judges on appearance, even if they think they don't. People don't expect me to be part of the nerd herd, as we call ourselves, at my school due to my looks. They expect me to be in the popular crowd, or the loners. One or the other... but really once they hear me talking a lot about anime or video games they are shocked about how I behave compared to my appearance. I hope I helped you out a little :D
I am not trying to act crude but I can't stand leaving my house without holister.Or some source of designer. And I'm not a bitch I'm probably one of the sweetest caring people ever! ( and I'm not trying to be full of myself ether.)
i dress nice for myself,not the approval of others.and I'm not stuck up at all,theres nothing wrong with liking fashion and looking good(: people are so judgmental these days...
I get why someone who wears expensive stuff could be called snotty and stuck-up, cause more times than not those girls' parents get them that sh*t. so they don't know the value of a dollar and people like that are annoying. like kim kardashion, she thinks her sh*t don't stink.
usually people assume girls who dress nice are either rich or date rich guys. so if a guy is not rich he can get intimidated by that. and if a guy is immature, instead of acknowledging his own insecurities, he will just attack the girl or name call to make himself feel better. girls will attack you because they are jealous that you look nice and dress in the latest fashions. they are envious of your image. all girls who dress nice aren't stuck up, and all stuck up girls don't dress nice.