Had a first date last night. As we were walking home I mentioned walking up to my apartment door because it was SO FREAKING COLD OUT. I said we could say good night at my door instead of standing in the cold outside. It was like 20 degrees out, I was teeth-cattering shivering cold.
We get to my door and he asks if I want him to come in I immediately say no. I was shocked he asked that after I preficed it with stating how cold it was AND it came up in conversation, so I mentioned I was a virgin and am waiting until I'm in love and in something real and committed. I don't know what he was thinking asking to come in!
After I said no he kinda just looked at me. I said it was nice meeting him and I had a good time. Still nothing from him. I reach for a hug and then we part ways. As he's almost down the hall he looks over his shoulder and says, "I'll call you or whatever." OR WHATEVER? I actually LOLed because I was like, why even try at this point!
He texted this morning saying he hoped there wasn't any misunderstanding and that he had a good time and he'll call me soon. I haven't wrote back.
Granted he said he was shy, but I don't get why he couldn't have been classy and said something to me after it got weird. He's turning 30 in two weeks and this kind of behavior is a joke to me and really immature...I'm curious to what he was thinking- it's pretty obvious to what I was thinking!
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You are smart for knowing you're not a hoe and you just wanted common courtesy of a man...a DATE!.
He was stupid for thinking , JUST BECAUSE YOU ASKED HIM TO THE DOOR< doesn't mean "Hi, Wan2 fuk!"
So, ya, there was a misunderstanding.
He sounds like a slut and wanted to get in your pants on one day and thought you were asking.
He should realize not every woman is an object, or target. And shows how shallow he is.
If you want to keep dating this guy, YES! he is going o be an immature child STILL playing games and he will make your life miserable. Done waste you time.
you can get a man who knows what he wants and will want it with you. Good Luck0