I care more about the fact if he takes care of himself. You don't need the body of a model to win my heart. I mean.. when you're a student you DRINK A LOT ! so it is pretty understandable that you have a small belly :) I don't mind. As long as you have a positive vibe around you and make her feel safe when she is with you... you're good ;)
we do care, just as guys do care about girls' looks. but we don't go for looks that much. I, personally, go more for brains and well humor and a great personality. I go for looks too, but I can fall in love with someone not so attracted just as much as for someone extremely attractive.
Me 2. there was a guy I was attracted to physically but what made him so hot was his personality. I have never fallen for a guy just for looks. If it is it is only for sex of course.
Yeah they do, and if they say otherwise, they're not being entirely honest. Women are just as visual as men are. Only difference is, guys are more vocal about it. There also isn't anything wrong with caring about looks, it's part of evolution and our basic human nature.
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Looks help, but so do a bunch of other things. Sometimes a girl will be attracted to someone she KNOWS isn't good looking, but she's still into him. BTW, "personality" doesn't just mean being nice...it could mean different things: funny, intelligent, brave, etc. Different girls are turned on by different traits.
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If you are better looking girls will look at you but still be intimadated to go up and just talk to you, I would much rather a guy have the confidence to just come up and say "hi my name is..."
than some guy thath just looks good and has no personality or can't talk to me first
Looks matter, but the common argument is that money matters more. It's not true with all women, but rest assured that you will look taller if you stand on your wallet.
Looks catch our eyes, but personality catches our heats. If a guy is good looking, then I'll want to get to know him more, but if his personality is rotten then I will stop.
Aye. That's because it is too good to be true. My Theory - You could be the greatest guy in the world. but with out looks, you arn't going to get anywhere.
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Thats a lie a whole load of girls judge only on looks it the same as guys buh there are a few that wouldn't cuase there not so shallow but most people are.
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For me the looks are the first part of attraction, just like you guys are initially attract to looks. But after that personality and chemistry go so far.
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I care more about the fact if he takes care of himself. You don't need the body of a model to win my heart. I mean.. when you're a student you DRINK A LOT ! so it is pretty understandable that you have a small belly :) I don't mind. As long as you have a positive vibe around you and make her feel safe when she is with you... you're good ;)
I care about looks, of course I do, but I care bout personality more
If the guy is cute BUT isn't funny and gets jealous easily or something, I wouldn't go for him because of his personality.
But if the guy is Cute AND has a nice personality, then that's the guy I'd be going for.
we do care, just as guys do care about girls' looks. but we don't go for looks that much. I, personally, go more for brains and well humor and a great personality. I go for looks too, but I can fall in love with someone not so attracted just as much as for someone extremely attractive.
Me 2. there was a guy I was attracted to physically but what made him so hot was his personality. I have never fallen for a guy just for looks. If it is it is only for sex of course.
yeah. looks attract, but personality is what really makes you fall.
Yeah they do, and if they say otherwise, they're not being entirely honest. Women are just as visual as men are. Only difference is, guys are more vocal about it. There also isn't anything wrong with caring about looks, it's part of evolution and our basic human nature.
Looks help, but so do a bunch of other things. Sometimes a girl will be attracted to someone she KNOWS isn't good looking, but she's still into him. BTW, "personality" doesn't just mean being nice...it could mean different things: funny, intelligent, brave, etc. Different girls are turned on by different traits.
If you are better looking girls will look at you but still be intimadated to go up and just talk to you, I would much rather a guy have the confidence to just come up and say "hi my name is..."
than some guy thath just looks good and has no personality or can't talk to me first
Looks matter, but the common argument is that money matters more. It's not true with all women, but rest assured that you will look taller if you stand on your wallet.
LOL, win.
Nevada? Me too.
Looks catch our eyes, but personality catches our heats. If a guy is good looking, then I'll want to get to know him more, but if his personality is rotten then I will stop.
personality attracts your body heat? you mean sex?
LOL, touche
Stupid typo
Women care about looks just like men do...dont be fooled. Other things are equally important however...dont be fooled.
true true true I admit that I'm shallow at least :P
well you shouldn't be idiot
yea I know
Dude, a bit harsh on the judgment don't you think? Shallowness isn't exactly evil per se, though it isn't a very good quality for most people.
Give her a break. At least she's got the guts to be honest about having an unpopular opinion/viewpoint.
Looks are the first thing we notice about someone. They determine what we think of them and whether or not we want to pursue getting to know them.
It sounds too good to be true because it isn't true.
Whoever told you that was lying.
We care about looks, but we care more about personality.
Women have certain types, while men want any kind of a girl that looks good...
No, wrong hun, girls and guys have the 'same' if you will, attraction in different proportions.
Hahaha...riiiight...
They care about how much oil you may have lying beneath the land you own... or you're incredibly good looking, 1 of the 2
They care a lot about looks especially the good looking ones. Women are way more shallow than us.
Beauty catches the eye, but personality captures the heart.
Well said :)
Aye. That's because it is too good to be true. My Theory - You could be the greatest guy in the world. but with out looks, you arn't going to get anywhere.
Thats a lie a whole load of girls judge only on looks it the same as guys buh there are a few that wouldn't cuase there not so shallow but most people are.
For me the looks are the first part of attraction, just like you guys are initially attract to looks. But after that personality and chemistry go so far.
except on the internet, where they don't have the context of your winning personality.
Yes they do, although most don't admit it.
As my theory goes: You could be the greatest guy in the world, but without good looks, you arnt going to get noticed.