if your partner was like average, looks wise & somebody smoking hot was interested would you leave your partner for them?
obviously not if you was in love but say you wasn't in love
ok the question is being misunderstood, surely you have dated someone you really liked but wasn't in love with, someone you thought about loads and really conected with but wasn't in love with. would you leave them for someone who was better looking?
No I wouldn't do that, because when I get into a relationship with somebody I wait until I'm damn sure I want to be with that person. I'm not "in love" with my boyfriend yet, but he's got everything I want, so there's no way I'd leave him for just a hotter model.
Not in love? What does "in love" actually mean? For me, the passion and so on of first getting with someone is far less important than the enjoyment of their company, respect for who they are. I love the way my girlfriend does everything, I idolise the way she talks, walks, thinks, acts. I'm comfortable with her in every way. Even her bad habits are adorable to me. So to me, there could be no one hotter or sexier or more wonderful and if there was, I'd not notice!
So the answer really, in brief, should be - if you aren't in love, then you aren't really in the relationship.