All throughout high school I was always the girl who was friends with the guys and nothing more. Now 3 years later, I find myself in the same position.
I do not think I am unattractive, but I am also not drop dead hot. I grew up with only brothers and all of there friends so I'm more into sports and outdoor activities than most girls... Is this a turn off to men? every time I find myself interested in a guy, it usually ends with them saying I see you as a friend... What's wrong with me lol
possibly because you know how men think, and that's a great thing it's what most of us spend half our lives trying to figure out, how the f*** do their brains work, what motivates them? you have been given gem of a gift and I reckon the men in your life have a good deal of respect for you, that's no small thing.
you say 3 years later you find yourself in the same position, so that implies you've dated or been with someone special for a time recently. I think you shouldn't blame your personal or female attributes for your circumstances, many factors play a part in matters of the heart after all
i think your just hanging around a wrong crowd of guys. I like tom girls a lot in fact I perfer them over girlie girls anyday. Seeing that you grew up with only brothers, it makes sense you grew into getting along with guys than playing the "love game", ya know?
That's just a myth. Men are almost never intimidated by a woman. There are women we are attracted to. There are women we are not attracted to. That's it.
It's also a myth that we have to "accept you the way you are". We don't. You need to be willing to look at your unattractive traits and change them. Most women in your position are more interested in being validated than having a relationship, so the won't change...and consequently end up alone.
I've looked at your picture. You're very good looking woman. I think you come off like a guy in your behavior, so guys treat you like a guy. Masculine traits are okay in my female friends, but in my girlfriend.