Why do guys think Lady Gaga is unattractive/ugly?

I am a really big fan of Lady Gaga and think she's fabulously beautiful, but a lot of my guy friends think that she's ugly? They're entitled to their opinions of her and everything, but what makes her so unappealing? I mean, she's in really good shape, she's petite, she's very talented, her makeup and clothes are always really nice. What attributes make her so unappealing to the masses of men out there in the world?


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  • First, I wasn't sure that she was actually a woman -- I thought it was possible that a gay had decided to masquerade as a woman, wouldn't be the first time.

    Second, now that I have seen pictures, it's clear that she's ugly. And yes, technically a female.

    And BTW, I'm someone who believes that every woman is beautiful. When I was in college I really believed that. Look at my posts, I actually was interested in who my date was and what's going on in her life. And I don't feel/think that I was less of a man for this, not at all. I used to get lot's of sex, and sometimes, even during the college day had reason to go around with a smile on my face.

    So I'm not anti-women. I really did think that every woman can be stunning. When I was dating my wife, I remember thinking how wonderful she was and then realizing that she was attractive too.

    But that was before the US seemed to be given over to gays and lesbians. My opinion, Lady Gaga is ugly because she tries to be. Beauty isn't actually in the boob size or what a woman does when she's, well..., it's also what she thinks, what kind of a person she is.

    And Lady Gaga -- well, I think I have made my point.

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    • That last paragraph makes you seem deeply homophobic. Just so ya know.

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    • You're right that you're giving your honest opinion. But I think the reasons for not liking based on her own personal politics is invalid. I'm sure there are reasons *not* to like her solely based on her sexuality or what she believes in.

    • I think this is pretty on point. You could even go further. Lady Gaga tries to make what is unatural and ugly and presents it as tru beauty. I will explain.
      Art is based on nature, there is a harmony to everything that tells us there is order and not chaos. Complimentary colors are simply colors found in nature to be together. Red roses green bush. Purple sky yellow sun etc. Order gives us a sort of meaning. Tells us things are not random, life has purpose and beauty. And nature constantly presents us with order, in colors in music in patterns etc.
      Lady Gaga creates chaos, looks for things that don't have harmony creates ugliness and then presents it as beautiful. It makes people uneasy, and like most have said disgusted.

What Guys Said 18

  • She and her traveling freak show just arrived in town this weekend, and the streets are filled with misifts adorned in rubber shirts and gimp masks dancing about in puddles of pudding whilst tossing fairy dust. I recently read a news article wherein they reported horn-like bones to be growing from her forehead. When asked about them she indicated that she is "channeling" some dead freak whose name thankfully escapes me. There's lotsa room in hell, so why make reservations? Not on my watch!

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  • Going off of some of the comments below:

    I don't think she is naturally ugly, I don't think she is a bad singer, but I don't care for the appearances she's created. And I think her music does not compliment her singing ability.

    She's very out there as most people will agree with. I'm not normally one to complain about too much make up, but yeah, she has too much. To comment on the yearbook photo that someone below linked to, she is pretty in that picture. To the other links I saw posted, she has a nice body, but no I don't think she looks good made up like that. Her make up clothes, at least to me, are not always nice.

    Lastly, not being used to dealing with a bold assertive woman. She doesn't strike me as being that assertive (granted I don't pay attention to her) but bold and strong, I know lots of women like that and they don't frighten me. She doesn't frighten me, I just don't like her music, or find her outfits attractive. I give her points for not being afraid to wear something outlandish like that, but now it's become part of her identity. That's not necessarily a bad thing, it's just not something I'm going to find attractive.

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  • I searched and searched and searched and found precisely ONE photo of Lady Gaga looking attractive. Apart from that... just say no to clowns, kids.

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  • She's absolutely hideous because she embraces her ugliness. Not only do I believe she's hyper-egotistically narcissistic, but I feel like she steals original artistry with the impression that she is the source. Overuse of symbolism, sexuality, and unorthodox perversion crammed into a trashy pop-song jingle machine ruins whatever movement or relativity she could potential hold. Easy way to put it... she takes advantage of those less popular out casted lifestyles to seem naturally artistic in all ways. Don't try to act so weird, just be weird. I don't get genuine vibes from her anytime I see a performance by her.. I get the feeling she's trying to out do all the artists who inspired her to make art to begin with. Plus, her face. Shitty personallity wrapped up in unattractiveness just doesn't work out. She pulls off looking like a weasel-ish boy all to well.. her eyebrows are always either overwhelmingly THERE, or they're nonexistent. Humans look creepy as fuck without eyebrows.. especially when it's her face. Her eyes, large nose, and rat like teeth play hand in hand with the cringe effect emitted from her face. To top it off... watch her perform. It looks like she's in agony. I tried. I really tried to just accept and embrace the weirdness.. I mean artist do we rid shit all the time... but I can't help feeling her forcing the awkward excuse for artistry down my ears and eyes. Its offensive. The sum it all up, if we could see her as an artist who takes all that shit off at the end of the day and is just a not her down to earth person with a successful career... maybe we wouldn't be so disgusted... but she doesn't. She gives the impression of being the same hideous fuck face behind closed doors when no cameras are rolling, and for that... we hate her. She has money, fame, and millions of adoring fans.. she doesn't need guys ogling after her. She doesn't deserve it. Adele is beautiful. Demi Lovato is beautiful. I really don't like her at all, but Katy Perry is beautiful. Even freak-ass Miley Cyrus is beautiful. But Gaga is a beast. -sincerely, most men.

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  • I don't honestly understand why... I find her to be GORGEOUS. I think it's only because of her nose really... heaven forbid she ever has surgery to change her face. She doesn't have the typical jennifer aniston type face which is the only thing most foolish men find attractive. I do too but that's such a small portion of the female population and my brain has a wider range of what it finds beautiful.

    But while you DO choose who you fall in love with you really don't choose what you find attractive... so a genetic fault in most I guess.

    Her body is amazing, she's fit... which I find insanely attractive, her face IS unique but far from ugly. This adds to her gorgeousness in my opinion. Most men just have a very VERY limited opinion of beauty... again tiny nose mostly.

    I also don't understand the "shes a dude" remarks, she looks totally feminine. I don't find transvestites attractive so you can't make that argument.

    It's seriously because most "men" have some odd definition of "perfection" I myself have never agreed with. And while many times extreme, her sense of style is remarkable AND impeccable.

    As long as a woman is mostly fit I find her irresistible, but I honestly do not understand how guys say her face is ugly... I don't see it. I'd love to raise our joined genes with her... body, brains, talent (acting, music, fashion), but she's got way more than just that.

    To me healthy is what is beautiful, especially under 35% body fat. I have a limited body fat range I am attracted to (mostly 30% and under is all drool zone) and I have attempted to change that, I just can't, it's unhealthy and after children most women can not prevent added pounds that don't go away... so the more over 30% a female body is just leads to a lot of health problems later in life (most folks put on weight as they age too so I see that when I look at someone) as well as unpleasant body odors. You also can't change your face but you can your body composition, maybe that's why I don't really see her face as ugly... I'm looking at the whole... still her parts are all pretty hot so I dunno

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  • Her style is too "loud" and over the top. I prefer women who keep it somewhat modest. On top of that, her gimmicks don't appeal to me. It's sad, really, because when you peel back what's on her–––when you peel back the meat suits, face masks, provocative poses, excessive make-up, dyed hair, and such–––she is an attractive woman. Or at least she used to be. (She would have been a crush of mine in high school.) I wonder if what she's done to herself has taken a toll on her permanent appearance.

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  • No. She is not unattractive or ugly. She is repulsive. The whole shelving of space shuttle happened because of Lady Gaga, They were working on a project to take her back to the planet she came from.

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  • That's the first I heard of that, N I don't get it. Her style's a little wild N unconventional, but so what? SHE'S HOT...

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  • I've never seen her out of her Madonna wannabe costumes and trowelled-on makeup.

    She may be cute as a real human being.

    Her performance persona is repellent to me, though.

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  • Have you seen her before her operations? No. She is not attractive now, or has she ever been.

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  • She's attractive in one of her videos but that's it. She's usually ugly. Her clothes and makeup are over the top usually. She's garbage compared to Cassadee Pope and Valerie Poxleitner.

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  • I find her fairly unappealing. It's her whole personality thing, I can't get past it. Same thing with Kesha, she's not bad looking, but she seems like she just crawled out of a dumpster. And is sticky. Bit of a digression there, I guess.

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    • Personality? What is it about her personality that's so off-putting, if you don't mind my asking?

    • I'm reasonably sure that she isn't human, first of all. But everything about her is weird. Literally, everything.

    • Let me try to help here.

      Men and women are designed for each other. Our personalities have been constructed with real care and great wisdom. After all, marriage is for life, how would it be if have way through we were to suddenly decide that we couldn't stand our mate (divorce happens for other reason's, cheating, for example. And yes, marriage does require real work from both partners.) We really are made for the opposite gender .

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  • Because gaga looks like a horse, her tits are gross and flabby, and she's a freakshow. No one is intimidated by her individuality, guys don't get intimidated by girls because theyre idependant, gaga is just a nasty horsefaced girl who thinks she's hot but no guy with standards would touch her

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  • Because she is and is crazy. She does the devil worship in her spare time. Look it up on youtube. She does make good songs. But the girl herself. I wouldn't go near.

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  • i read something that said, if a guy is insulting your taste in music. he either doesn't like you or isn't a good friend. if he's a good friend, he wouldn't attack your interests such as taste in music. try new friends

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    • My friends aren't the problem. I just want to know what is about Lady Gaga that doesn't do it for them.

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    • I think our ideas of friendship differ tremendously.

    • as I said. ya need new friends, you'll find out soon, why

  • Those that she is good looking should seek urgent optician testing !

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  • Pre-Gaga, yes. Now, not really.

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  • she looks like a man.

    she has a weird nose

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    • Ouch. Appreciate the honestly though.

    • lol I love your nickname

    • I really did think she might be a man posing as a woman. I don't think that anymore.

      And I'm a guy who used to think that all women were beautiful. Really. Until gays and lesbians, that was my actual thinking.

What Girls Said 7

  • The reason guys don't like her is because of all her makeup, clothes, and hair. It's all super over the top and fake. It's creative and entertaining, but weird. Guys tend to go for natural looking makeup, hair, etc.

    It really has nothing to do with her facial features or structure, trust me. The reason her nose looks so big is mainly because of her blunt bangs and platinum hair over an orange ish tan. And when she wears pale makeup, her eye makeup is so dramatic that it makes her eyes recede and her nose stick out more.

    With normal hair and makeup, her nose is only slightly big, which tons of girls who are pretty also share.

    The other thing they don't like is her odd persona that she has to go along with her look. It's sort of aloof and again, weird. Guys want an approachable and friendly girl, not someone who might be wacko.

    BUT having said all that, some guys are still gonna love her and think she's creative and cool or whatnot, they're just not gonna be mainstream. So unless you only wanna attract "normal" guys, don't base what you like off of a few opinions.

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  • Guys find Lady Gaga's crazy makeup, hair, outfits, and antics intimidating, and sometimes frightening. Guys aren't used to dealing with such a bold, assertive woman.

    This is a picture of Lady Gaga taken from her high school year book: link

    She looks very normal, and in my opinion beautiful. I'm sure some guys would agree with me after seeing that picture.

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    • Aww, that's an eye-opening answer! She is a very strong person with her talent and clothes. And that yearbook picture is all I see under her clothes and makeup!

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    • I think you may be missing the point a little. Gaga is plainly trying to corner the market on being an oddball, and that will never be appealing on any level, it's like pulling a Van Gogh and mailing your ear to a paramour.

    • Maybe she is, cjwright79, but she's doing a very good job of it. I don't know her personally, so I can't say if her craziness is all an act or if it's how she would choose to behave even if she wasn't famous. The bottom line is that she's made a name for herself and is very successful, attractive or not.

  • She is way too over the top for men to be attracted to her. A lot of men aren't even attracted to normal girls who are heavily made up and seem materialistic, let alone some crazy girl wearing a wreath of feathers over her face.

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  • with lesser make up she does look better and prettier

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  • Her makeup, fashion and behavior is a little over the top, not to mention, she DOES have a big nose.

    Body wise, she has a nice figure. She's in shape, she has curves, she's not skinny, she's not fat. Her body is much better than Megan Fox or Olivia Wilde, but face wise, she isn't so hot.

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  • I think she can sing but I do not think she is gorgeous she is ok looking

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  • It's her personality that's unnattractive, but I doubt anyone could contest she's beautiful.

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