Say you met him at school and you two talked for a while, then the next day the same thing happened. You two are obviously attracted to each other...by this second or third day, would you let him hold your hand and walk around with you or possibly kiss you?
To elaborate, at that point he wouldn't be a stranger, you'd know his name and you two been talking for say half hour to two hours each day. So by day 3 or so would that be OK for him to hold your hand? And at the end maybe kiss you?
One last thing, I guess the point I'm making is that there's no "date", just you two running into each other or meeting up at school
That would definitely be rushing things. Just because you talk to someone for a little bit a few days in a row doesn't mean you really know them that well. You were just hanging out and not actually on a date so holding hands and kissing definitely wouldn't fly with me.
Women act like they're unobtainable quickly, but in most cases it's BS. I've met girls and made out with them the same day. Happened in a mall once. If a girl likes you and wants to do something about it, she'll let you do whatever she also wants to do, which usually includes kissing and often includes a lot more than that.