3 things simultaneously. 1)height. he has to be taller than me. I don't do tom-kat sh*t. 2)hair. I like brunette men only..so hair first that is dark brown. then 3) the face over all. I start with the eyes, both of them have to be in place. then I look up at the eyebrows...no unibrows please! then I look down at the nose if its proportional with the rest of the face and not like michael jacksons, then the lips and teeth, really bad yellowy infected teeth one hanging out of his face swinging back and forth will make me frown and run away...other that that he's good to go, and finally I look at his facial hair...i find that it turns me on that 5 o clock shadow thing as opposed to totally clean shaven...its super sexy and manly.