So I want to know if there are any guys who are in committed relationships that don't think about other women sexually because they love their girlfriends so much or if there are guys who do love their girlfriends very much unconditionally even but still think about other women sexually but don't want them is it normal for a boyfriend to think about other women sexually but still not want them or want to be with them because they love their girlfriends?
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When I have a girlfriend, I will NOT cheat on her. I won't be sexual to other girls at all, and sometimes fend off slightly sexual advances.
BUT... that doesn't mean I won't find other girls sexually attractive. I do, and that's largely due to biological/genetic "programming." I won't act on it, but I'll definitely look and appreciate a nice body or pretty face. And I will still watch p*rn, but keep in mind that guys watching p*rn tend not to see the whole girl as much as individual body parts (porn is NOT real life). P*rn is fantasy.
Many girls I've been with totally get that (a few have been a little insecure), and some would even go out of their way to point out hot women for me to look at. They know that I may look, but I'll only be touching them, and they'll get the benefit of any extra testosterone that got stirred up by me looking at the other girls.0