Everytime I talk with a stranger who's female - as long as I have something to say/do/etc to keep the energy alive, everything rolls smoothly.. But the minute I'm quiet, a girl starts to talk about drama/ex's/etc.. (Specificity: "Tom and angeli just broke up! I know it's crazy.. they've been together so long.." // "Wow my boyfriend is so dumb.. last night he wouldn't pick me up from the bar, so I had to call a cab...'blahblahblah')...
What's stunning to me, is that it happens with the same girl I was just entertaining.. Is this just me, or does this happen to you guys too? Cause it's a huge turn off and I'm wondering if I'm sending the wrong sign, or maybe these girls are trying to squash attraction, or ..? who knows what else?
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I'm a bit sarcastic when that happens so I just say, "yeah this session for therapy is $1000, I'm totally serious." They laugh and I keep on rolling. "Yeah, I'm a certified therapist, rated #1 in America." etc etc. But that is just my style. And I do get fed up with girls who can't add to a conversation.
Conversation is like a dance, where each takes turn leading and following. If she can't properly dance, I consider her a no-personality type person.2
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