Strangely us guys can't help but look at those bags of funnies. How do you focus on them and not on there chest and how do you control those wondering eyes?
what I sort of do is look into one eye and switch and look at the other eye than repeat that and nod and sometimes do a huh to show I'm still here. however, when were talking longer my patience begins to wear off and I'm lost on what they saying to me and sneak a peek. GAME OVER.
sometimes I feel like "our eyes are meeting but my eyes aren't there" if you know what I mean? its like I'm looking at you but there empty...
i don't understand, if you look at them before you strike up conversation why do you still feel the need to keep looking at them. Like get it out your system then strike up a conversation when you can concentrate on their face ? ( not meant in a bitchy way by the way , I'm curious )
To be honest, I never need to if we're actually talking. I generally get the urge when we aren't talking, but she's there, you know? And I don't fight it. But when she talks to me, I'm on that. The only time I'll get distracted is when its like a receptionist or something, someone who I've got no previous with. Or if she leans over, when talking, ahaha. But then she should expect me to loose my place in the conversation.