I work really hard, I expect to be with someone who can support themselves. I'd also like for my future life partner to want to do more in life than just survive. Even if all he's ambitious about is collecting stamps, its good to know he's got a little substance to him.
I'm work hard & it is important to me, t spend commit energy, towards things I see as important in this world. I think its a positive trait and it shows good character in a guy, if he gives a sh*t or is content to do nothing.
A guy who doesn't have ambition and drive is that 24 year old McDonald's crew member with no education, who smokes weed and plays Xbox all day and has no plans to better his future. Does that answer your question?