I'm talking about the average guy who buys normal clothes and is neat and clean but not into all the latest trends and everything. I wonder this because I have a friend who is fairly attractive. She doesn't have the best figure, kind of looks like she's 4 months preggers sometimes and she's pretty tall. She never does her hair. It just stays kinda messy. She wears jeans a lot of thrift store stuff etc. I think she looks really sloppy 85% of the time, but guys still look at her, like check her out I guess. I notice it. No one asks her out though, they just look for a little while.
It makes me wonder, because I thought a guy wouldn't be real interested in a girl if she looks like she doesn't take care of herself. Before her fam got rid of their ferrets her clothes would stink sometimes too. I don't get it. Makes me feel like I put too much work into looking cute. I have heard that girls dress for other girls. Truth?
girls DO dress for other girls. part of that competition thing BUT, what they don't realize is that theyre getting male attention at the exact same time. regardless of what theyre wearing. even lesbians will get male attention, how the hell would we know if your les. or not without actually seeing you make out with another girl
however, it sounds like your friend is just comfortable in her own skin, its not to say you're not, but I think girls who dress like that are probably OK with it and exude confidence just as much as the ones who dress a little more "up".
i personally don't care how you dress, its up to you, ill like you for you, as cliche as it sounds
I care whether or not a girl cares about her appearance. I don't care whether a girl's clothes match perfectly, if she's wearing three layers of makeup, if her toenails match her belt, or any of the other insane bullsh*t girls think guys care about.
Well a female should always have good hygiene no matter what. And the fact that she used to shop at thrift stores, maybe she doesn't have the money at the moment to buy expensive clothes, so you can't blame her for shopping at a thrift store. And maybe guys aren't just looking at the clothes that she wears, maybe its because she has a pretty face, and she different from all the other females that walk out the house with just anything on just to get some type of attention. And if she likes to wear the clothes that she wears, then maybe that's just her style, she has her own swag. And that's definitely something that attracts guys is when you have your own unique style.