I kind of resent when a guy acts like I am gorgeous, because I know the only reason he wants me is because he doesn't stand a chance with the girls who are really gorgeous. I'd rather a guy be blunt: "I'm kinda ugly, you're kinda ugly ... lets try to make this work." Pretending that I'm attractive makes me resent that he gets to enjoy feeling attraction while I don't.
Why do guys try to make ugly women feel attractive?
What Guys Said 4
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
some people like fat, skinny, pale, tan, tall, short, plain, exotic, etc...
Don't chase the guys away that say things like this. They are just think this is what you want to hear and are trying to make you happy.0
Cause these guys are nice. Having a woman feel attractive makes them accepted. Rejection hurts, literally. It sparks the same neuro-formations that physical pain causes.
Why do physically attractive chicks think they are superior when they did nothing to deserve it? Get out garbage.0
What Girls Said 4
ingenuine compliments kill me. I feel you on this outlook but the chances of it ever playing out like this are slim, because many girls are willing to believe any kind of praise and recoil from brutal honesty about their looks.0
I think your attitude is way too negative. Maybe you're not the hottest chick - not even to the guy who is hitting on you - but it doesn't mean he thinks you're ugly.2
This is a GREAT perspective! I really love this idea and agree!0
1. You're not really ugly, you just have such a low self image that you think you being ugly is true and that there is no way a guy could be attracted to you because of your "ugliness" when in all actuality, there are things attractive about you that a guy is responding to.
2. He's trying to get laid. A guy has more success when he compliments a woman and makes her feel good if he just was blatantly rude and was like "yeah you're ugly but gimme some p**** anyway" lol that' wouldn't work.
Either way, if you feel this way about yourself maybe you shouldn't be dealing with guys. There is no reason why you should live life thinking so poorly of yourself.1
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