Ok so I'm in high school and I finally got enough guts to get a girls number. She was really easy going, extremely pretty and liked talking to me alot- This is what boosted my confidence, or so I thought but no other girl was this easy to talk to... Now, I consider myself a guy who's above average on looks (I cannot stress it enough. I'm not a tool/cocky but I've been told that by people). Girls...Look at me but anytime I try to talk to them they just seem like they aren't interested. Not discusted or repulsed though. I'm too much of a bitch to try to talk to them in person and sadly I use Facebook. Its not like Facebook handicapped me socially, but I'v'e never been able to talk to girls. So anyway. They aren't intersted via Facebook but they are in person but I suck talking to girls in person. Anyway, none of them respond because they've seen me but they don't know me and I basically feel like a tool trying too hard. Does anyone have any advice? I'm sick of seeing girls that I'm too afraid to talk to. I also feel embarrassed as if people are staring at me thinking I'm A tool.
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ok this is kinda a hard situation... my advice is to make friends with some girls that your buddys are friends with or in your classes and practice talking to them that way(im kinda the same way) get to know them and it just gets easyer... this girls may not talk to you cause your trying to talk to them on Facebook
girls hate itt when a guy talks to them over text or something and then don't say aword to them in the hallway... trust me I'm in asituation where my guy friend talks to me over text but will not even say hi to me in the hallway
your going to have to open up and justy try to talk to some girls... you may think its embaraccing if you say something wrong or don't know what to say but most girls think its kinda cute that it is hard for you to talk to them... they will apreciate you trying to talk to them
for stuff to say talk to them about some of the classes your takeing and if your takeing a class that they took last semester ask them about that...(haveing inside jokes really works or just a funny moment cause it can startt conversations between you to easly :)
good luck :)1