my question is, what makes a man deserving of such a woman, being that he's reasonably attractive himself? what if you approach a woman who fits into your dream girl category and you're rejected, what made you undeserving of her? why couldn't you be the one, when you would've made an honest attempt at maintaining a healthy relationship forever? THAT kind of woman.
However, unlike with men, women seem to have no common definition of what is attractive. Where men pretty much all agree on who is attractive or not, women have vastly different opinions from guy to guy.
Otherwise, you just f***ed up the first approach. In other words, you didn't display every good quality that there is a word for in the dictionary in a span of 30 seconds. Cause that's how women want.