I am an athlete. I play soccer golf basketball and softball. So I am constantly working out for those sports. Are some guy intimidate or what by girls with bigger muscles. Is it a turn off? And why do other girls talk about it so much . like when I am walking through the halls people are like dang you're so manly . . what do I need to do
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it varies. I think you'll find many men who like the "amazon" fantasy (that is - are into really strong powerful athletic women)
on the flip side, many men like their girls to be at least a little smaller than them (the same seems to go for many girls - they like their guys to be bigger).
if people are saying you're "manly" it could be as much to do with the way you dress & carry yourself: I can imagine that if you walk the way that many muscular male athletes do (walking from shoulders), people will associate that with a more masculine look.
in the long run you'll be happier to be who you are, rather than trying to conform to someone else's expectations, but if you want to project a more "feminine" persona, take a look at your wardrobe to try to "soften" some of your more muscular lines, consider walking less "intensely", and emphasise your feminine attributes (long well-styled hair, for example, is currently a big female fashion).
being fit & healthy is going to help make you very attractive to guys (health = beauty), so it's just a matter of "tuning" things to project the image you want.
good luck & remember just be what *you* want to be.0