I was wondering why only unattractive guys tend to have enough balls to approach me. When I go out to the club or even to the gym, only guys that I never would take a second glance at try to talk to me.
I have never been approached by a decent guy that I thought was cute. Is it because the unattractive guys don't have anything to lose? I don't want to sound like a snob or anything, but I'm not ugly so why don't hot guys try to ask me out? Are the more attractive guys scared to approach me because I look like I might have a boyfriend or what is it? I'm tired of being single after a series of hopeless relationships and I want a boyfriend.
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Maybe you're nerd-hot. Like a brunette who's really cute but not sexy hot, so creepy nerd guys always hit on you.
If you want to be more approachable by non-creeps, look like what the average guy wants.
Wear contacts if you got glasses. Dye your hair blonde. Wear sporty clothing, like you see the hot girls at the gym wear.
If you truly are just a pretty hot girl, most guys might just figure damn she's out of my league. Be really nice and easy going. Don't strut like a stuck up girl, walk casual. Smile a lot. Laugh and have a good time. Be really playful and flirty. The more comfortable you are around guys, the more guys are going to be comfortable around you.
DO NOT sit in a corner. I see this mistake at parties a lot where 2 hot girls come in to a party, have a seat just by themselves on a corner couch or something, and wait 15 minutes for a guy to talk to them, which if it doesn't happen they get up to leave. You gotta be outgoing about it if you want to get more guys coming up to you.1