the question pretty much says it all.
A pretty annoying thing happened to me the other day - I was making some progress with a girl at a friend's house. She didn't take to me at first, but really started to warm up to me. We started talking and flirting a bit more and playing this silly game with chopsticks... not important lol.
BUT, this lame-o guy was sitting there the whole time practically begging for her attention. She was very obviously just being nice to him. But he just wouldn't get the hint and kept showing her crap on his computer. I just kept myself occupied with other friends and occasionally popped back into the room she was in and talked a bit... he would NOT leave her alone for a second.
So, dudes - how would you deal with a lame (blocker) guy in a way that doesn't completely burn him and doesn't make you look like an ass to the girl?
girls - how would you like a guy you're (possibly) interested in to act in a situation when a lame guy won't leave you alone, and you're too nice of a person to tell him to f*ck off
Most Helpful Girl
First of all, I'm not the kind of girl who wouldn't tell the guy to f*** off if he's being annoying. BUT if I wouldn't want to hurt him, and that way wouldn't want to tell him to go somewhere else.
I'd probably want the guy I'm really talking to (and possibly interested in) get me away from that situation, not by saying anything mean to the guy who's trying to talk with me, but to say something like '' Could we go talk somewhere where it isn't so crowded?''. And then he would take my hand and pull me somewhere where the lame guy couldn't come and disturb us two :)2