1. intelligence/conversational ability
2. sexual attraction
Most Helpful Girl
I think you should stop looking for intelligence. A guy can still be funny and carry a good conversation, but not have to be really smart.
Personally, I used to only go for super smart guys, and it never made me happy because I wasn't attracted enough to them. I was sacrificing attraction for intelligence. Humor always brightens your day and your life, so that's important. If a guy was really smart and really sexy but I never laughed with him, life would be dull.
Anyways, my current plan is to go for guys who are funny and attractive. The brainiacs just didn't work out for me.2