I think you should stop looking for intelligence. A guy can still be funny and carry a good conversation, but not have to be really smart.
Personally, I used to only go for super smart guys, and it never made me happy because I wasn't attracted enough to them. I was sacrificing attraction for intelligence. Humor always brightens your day and your life, so that's important. If a guy was really smart and really sexy but I never laughed with him, life would be dull.
Anyways, my current plan is to go for guys who are funny and attractive. The brainiacs just didn't work out for me.
I'd say intelligent conversation.. I'd f***ing love a girl that I could have an intelligent conversation about music or film or philosophy with, but you can still have a lot fun and enjoy life with a really funny person. You can always go to your mates to have intelligent conversations, but in a relationship you need to WANT to spend time with your partner. And fun is a lot more fun than a serious conversation :)
As for the other two, I'd say 3 would be next to go. Humour is awesome, but again, there's funny stuff everywhere.. If you feel you need to laugh you can go on the internet, watch a movie, see a comedian, hang out with mates.. Comedy is everywhere.
Sexual attraction I couldn't really throw away at all.. In my opinion, if your in a relationship and not sexually attracted to your partner.. what makes her any more than a really good friend?
I'd say sexual attraction, if we're talking about first impressions. When I first met my most recent crush, I really wasn't attracted to him at all-- it's not that he was bad looking by any means, but he just wasn't my type. Then I got to know him-- he is honestly the kindest, most intelligent guy I've even met, and he has such a fantastic sense of humor. I fell for his personality easily, and now I love the way he looks simply because it's part of who he is. :)
If you're asking this because you don't think a guy is out there that has all these qualities then don't give up. There is a guy. Never settle. I'd rather be single than be in a miserable relationship.
If you don't think you're good enough for guys like that then you need to work on yourself before you think about dating someone else. You have to love yourself before loving another person because you can't rely on another person to give you happiness. You can find the perfect guy if you have confidence. :)
intelligence. He can be funny and sociable with the ability to have a really nice conversation wtih and be extremely attractive but I would drop intelligence. humor, sexual attraction, and conversation skills are a must in my book.
Take away sexual attraction and you just have a good friend.
Take away intelligence and you just got a fu ck buddy.
I guess you could take away humor if you're one of those hannibal lector types but for the most part those all seem pretty necessary.