We all know the cliched phrase " it's the inside that counts"... Well, it doesn't always work that way in real life ( esp during high school and early college years).
Girls have more pressure on them to make themselves look as pretty as possible...
So how hard is it for ugly/ average girls? Or do pretty and ugly girls have it equally hard when it comes to dating?
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I don't think average girls have it that bad. "ugly" girls may have it bad, but that depends on your definition of ugly. One man's ugly is another man's attractive. As a rule though, I'd say average/ugly girls have it worse than average/ugly guys. In my psychology class of intimate relationships, our textbook described that men see looks as more important in their attraction than women do. However, insecure guys have it worse than insecure girls. That same textbook described that women see confidence/stability as more important for our attraction than men do.
We all have things that we're more strict or lenient on. But just as I'd suggest a guy to work on his confidence and appearance, I suggest the same for women. Why settle for being less than you can be? Only good can come from improving yourself. No one is "stuck" being ugly or insecure. It just depends on whether they want to work for it and become happier, or continue sitting around bitching about it and get nowhere.2
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