I have a friend who is kind of big in size but even bigger in heart and she isn't ugly she is very beautiful. She is always complaining that she needs to loose weight because guys don't like big girls.
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It's the first thing guys notice. After that, we do start to notice the personality, or at least I do. Guys are visual creatures. There's no point denying that. Girls seem to be stimulated by more things than guys, and that also unfortunately means that they often hold guys to the same standards. I'm not saying that that's a bad thing, but I am saying that it means that many guys will often fall short. If a guy can capitalize on the other senses that girls are attracted to, then they have the world as their oyster. Some guys are capable of deeper thought and feelings, but it's rarer than gives guys credit.
I must say this though: A girl that is more comfortable with her body weight, whether larger or rake-like, is more attractive than a girl that constantly worries about weight. I've liked larger girls before, but I can't remember liking a girl that constantly talked and fussed over her weight. I have nothing against them, but it's just not an attractive personality trait. Sure, if you're overweight, lose a few pounds as it isn't healthy, and if you're anorexic, gain a few pounds, as that's less healthy. BUT, don't make such a big deal over it that you forget to smile and live. Want a little secret? It's easier to lose/gain weight if you're unfussed about it. It's more attractive too.0