Honestly, the personality for me is number one, although I will say I do like my man to look good ;-). Which is why my husband is perfect for me! He's the guy who can make everyone laugh (y'all watch, one day he'll be a famous comedian!) and he so incredibly handsome! I got the full packaged deal! :D
when it comes to looks, for the most part hair. I like it kinda long and straight. Though an extreme body [which to me is either really buff or fat] is a turn off. I'm pretty sure that most other girls don't like overly buff or fat bodies either.