He's a very masculine guy. I said something about wearing skirts, and he said something like "You do wear a lot of skirts (not that that's a bad thing)". I've been wondering lately if he's not into the whole dress/skirt/feminine thing, and this made me a little more concerned. I know it's a stupid question, but should I dress down for him more often? I like wearing skirts for myself and don't dress up for him, but does this sound like he wants me more casual?
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Just keep wearing what you like to wear. Why change yourself because of some guy. I used to do that all the time, but I got tired of playing 'keep up'. It really is tiring, think about it, you are constantly wondering if he will leave you or not like you as much if you don't go with what he feels you should do. I don't even think the comment was knocking your current wardrobe. I think he was trying to compliment you or just make an observation. Most girls I know wear sweatpants, sweaters and pj's all day long. Maybe it was refreshing for him to see someone who dresses up.
I would just keep wearing what you want. If you want to try dressing down a bit, that's okay too. But do it because you want to. I know that dressing nice everyday does take a long time. So it can't hurt to take a day off, but that doesn't mean you have to be uber casual in jammies. You could just integrate some more casual pieces into your wardrobe :)0