every guy I like absolutly cannot talk to me or approach me for some reason its always the old busted up pervs lol. I ask them why and almost every answer is "you're intimidating" I have no idea what they mean by this? the only thing I can think of is how I look and dress. my hair and makeup is always done on point and I always dress nicely no matter if I'm going out or to class. how can I be less "intimidating" so guys can approach me?
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Beautiful women are intimidating because guys don't approach them for fear of angry rejection. These women attract many men and have to turn down many of them.
Well-done-up women are also intimidating because it shows that they are confident. Many great guys simply can't go toe to toe with a woman in an initial conversation because the physical appearance is simply a distraction to a guy's confidence.
Now, being friendly as the girls have posted is a start, but a danger (i.e. beautiful women danger above).
Dressing down is also a good thing to do because then the guys you see most often can see your casual side and see that you do know how to have an off-day. The more of these you do, the better you'll also feel about yourself. This will show that you can let your guard down and maybe, just maybe, if there's a guy you like, he may notice you dressing down, and this will trigger a response in him that maybe you are approachable.
Is there a reason you always need to have a 5 star quality appearance in public incessantly?2