As my friend says, 'Appearance is only 1% of who we are.'
I would say that among my friends, we're a blended bunch, but we're all honorable, respectable guys. Some of us are smarter, some of us are married, some of us are single, some of us are more fit and more attractive (at least I can call a guy handsome confidently) and some us are less so, but overall, the traits balance out that make us all great guys.
But, I have seen varying attractiveness among random groups in public. For example, when walking past a table outside of a restaurant, there were 3 girls and a guy. One of the girls was much thinner than the other two, but that doesn't make her more attractive. I wondered, I wonder what her soul and personality look like.
I also wondered why they are all friends, and it doesn't really matter what I think. It matters why they're friends and that's all that matters.
If any woman approaches me, I consider her in my league because I don't have one. Looks fade, but the inner beauty remains. For me, it's the face, smile and hair that matter most - the rest are just bonus.