I really like this guy. We’ve told each other that we like each other. But the other day we were having a conversation and he said “I miss the days when I would dress up for someone I liked”… I was pretty stumped at what that meant?! So I said “What? I always dress up when I come to meet you!’ to which he said “Yeah but don’t you grow out of it? I’m excited to meet you but it’s not like I would make a special effort for anyone to look good”. I don’t know what to make of this, except that I was a little hurt. What do you think?
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To me it sounds like he would take you for granted, that you will be there for him, always. Maybe you should let him know that there is more fish in the sea and that you will maybe not always be there for him. And I know I would feel very hurt if a guy told me that. Why aren't you two together when you both like each other? Maybe he wants by saying that he wish he would have someone he could dress up for, that he wishes it would be you? That special someone? But I don't know the guy and I don't really know your situation, so those are just something I would think of. I hope this helps you.0