I am five foot nine and I weigh 180, I'm an hourglass. So my extra weight is distributed kinda oddly. I feel self conscious because I feel fat. I'm losing more weight. But does it sound unattractive? What is? You can be brutally honest lol
I'm asking what's attractive. I know I'm fat. I'm not asking you to tell me that for the idiots out there.
I believe that a well-proportioned body looks the most attractive. Some girls can be skinny but don't look attractive. Same to overweight girls. If you carry your weight beautifully, then it's attractive. Ofcourse, one should lose weight for health issues but as far as attractiveness hourglass looks very attractive :)
That's not that heavy really. I topped out at 164 and I'm 5'8". I mean obviously it's healthier if you lose a few pounds like you said but it's nothing that is completely hideous. For now just dress for your body. The worst thing girls of any weight do is wear clothes too small or too revealing. Try on things at the store and figure out what flatters your figure most.