Sometimes I feel that both average and physically attractive people both have pros and cons, so looks don't really matter. Take for ex attractive people... Some people are intimidated by pretty girls and never approach them while some guys only chase after the pretty ones, and for the plainer girls, it seems like guys find them more approachable for relationships, while the guys that shun average or ugly girls avoid them... So the benefits and disadvantages for both pretty and plain girls are pretty split even...
Anybody else get what I am saying? That for relationships, looks don't matter much, or do some of you disagree with me?
its not me, it's my friend...im just curious
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you have a very good point there,i kinda agree because those are actually facts. Look how humans interact with each other, lets say we have a guy named Tyler who is probably 7 out of 10, he's somewhat handsome and a sweet guy , then you have his friend named Kyle, who is hot , abs , good looks, but somewhat of an a**hole. Mainly Kyle will be the eye sore, most girls might want to date him or hook up with him over Tyler . Now lets say one of the girls dates Kyle and then he dumps her for another girl, after a period of time, she might consider Tyler as a potential lover, because he's more of a boyfriend material then kyle. It's odd world we live in but that's usually how people interact with each other. We desire to have things that's usually out of our reach but we fall back on something a little bit downgraded from what we wants. To wrap it up, basically people mix up Lust over love, Love is built by connection, not eye candy. When guys get looked over by other men who are more attractive and a**holes to everyone, then the nice guys switch sides because they believe that's what women desire. Its a confusing and endless cycle1