For a while now, I've had a pretty laid back style. Occasional Hollister, Polos, Lacoste, Plain V-necks, some graphic tees and either Jeans or Cargo Shorts, with some adidas on my feet. I am soon going to be going to college, and most of my friends that I party with, are like your typical macho man. Big and built, Ed Hardy and Affliction, nice jeans etc. And they do get laid lol. I don't have too much of a problem with the ladies, but they definitely do better in that department. My problem lies in that when I show up to parties with my friends, I look like the odd one out. They LOOK like partiers, and girl magnets, and although I party just as hard as they do, I do not look the part, and sometimes when I show up to places, people seem to think that I'm like a "goody-two-shoes" that doesn't do anything. Till I take the biggest hit, and out drink them. Where I need you guy's help is here: Should I look more the part of a partier? Which type of style do you ladies find more appealing? There are more questions, but I'm going to assume you guys get the point. I just want some advice.
Thanks in advance.
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Personally, your style is exactly what I look for in a guy. As long as you don't wear kneehigh socks, your style is perfect! As for your friends, they may have better luck with the ladies, but are the ladies they attract the types of ladies you want? They might be slutty or trashy. Now I don't know the girls in question, but that is how most of the girls at my school look when they go for guys you described as your friends. I like how you look, and you sound attractive; otherwise no girl would give you the time of day. I think your style is perfect, rock way you've got, and know that your style will attract classy, powerful women, but make sure you have personality to match. Girls that are classy and the type you want to attract will be drawn to you, trust me. No need to change!0