I had that problem my whole life.
People never make the first move. I always have to make the first move. I try to smile and be nice but nothing really helps.
Guys never approach me, only some random on the streets lol
When I ask my friends why I look like that they say that people are intimidated my your looks ( not being covky but I do look ok).
But I thought that attractive people get approached more. Bit in my case its not true. Even the not so attractive friends of mine all have bfs and aren't virgins.
What am I doing wrong?
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being attractive can be very intimidating to guys, they sometimes think that you already have a boyfriend, and don't bother taking the risk.
i know a few girls in my grade that never had a boyfriend and they are very attractive, and I rarely see guys talking to them (I am going into junior year)
alot of guys don't want to get shot down by approaching the really attractive girl- even though they really have nothing to lose.
and by approaching the guys, it shows confidence, which is a major turn on, and that you're showing an interest in them.
when you approach them, you will probably stick in their minds.
i know that happens to me.1