Don't pressurise yourself. Don't try too hard. Strangely, I was so aloof from the girls that some of my friends that I was gay! Then, after awhile, things changed, and after a certain age, a number of girls started showing an interest.
I think it has something to do with age, who else is playing the field, and what's the competition like, and how the others perceive you.
Unfortunately society still judges males on the basis of their earning capacity, and women on their looks. We shouldn't fall into this trap. I made use of the time I got (with less feminine attention) to build myself into a better person, as someone else advices you! Go for it... you won't regret.
What Girls Said 1
Maybe you're not doing anything wrong. Be yourself. Love yourself. Put yourself in situations to meet people; take a class that interests you, travel, and eventually you will meet someone. Men who approach you randomly will only be into your looks anyway, and you don't want that. You want someone who is into for you; whose had a couple of conversations with you- has an idea of what you're about. Hope this helps!