there's this one girl at my school (i'll call her R) who's always doing this.
my one friend came to school with shoulder length hair (her hair used to be down to her butt) and it looked super cute on her. everyone was complimenting her. but then then are said "short hair makes your face look chubby" even though that wasn't true at all.
then another time a friend of mine tried the smokey eye look but did it all wrong and she looked like a raccoon. I told her the look didn't suit her and we should try a new look but are said "no, leave it, it looks fab" even though that wasn't true either.
Because she's jealous and wants to be the best looking girl in the school? She probably thinks if she can talk people into doing something that makes them look ugly then they'll keep doing it and she won't feel threatened by them. Just ignore it. Usually people like that have the lowest self esteem.
She'd pick on the girl who looked girl out of pure jealousy. She'd compliment the girl who looks bad to make them feel better about themselves. Not everything is about looks, & it's good to encourage everyone.
Because R is insecure and wants to bring the attractive girl's confidence down. See bitchy bullies like that know that part of a girl's power comes from how confident she is and how good she feels about herself. So she was trying to get in your friend's head and make her feel less than to take away her shine because she's jealous of her.
When it comes to your other friend, she told her she looked good because she wanted that girl to look bad. She knew that girl looked a hot mess, but if she convinces her she looks fine, that girl will go around looking a hot mess and R will look better than her.
Very bitchy mind games!
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