i see these guys post stuff on girls posts or some thing like that and they say , "ya I never cared about looks its what people are like on the inside", even though that girl is amazingly hot,...but when I see a not so attractive girl with a really awesome personality that fits the person perfectly, nobody posts anything,. it just seems phony to say sh*t like that, becuase I don't think anyone is like that, the way a person looks matters a lot , if your not physicly attractive your definitely not going to get emotional attracted,you are just be friends. its first comes lust, then comes love. that's just my opinion, what do you guys/girls think
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Both are important. We're attracted to people who are healthy - both mentally and physically.
It seems to me that getting to know someone influences how you see them. After being in a relationship and loving my ex, for instance, I could honestly say I thought she was one of the prettiest girls in the world. Before that, yes I thought she was attractive, but it wasn't on that level.1