That sounds way too controlling LMFAO. What are you a dictator? hahaha
A real man will take the decisions, sure, but take into account the feelings/choices of the girl as well. When you go choosing what she wears, how to behave, how to ... that's f***ing excessive lol.
I'm a man in the real sense of the word, not a flat out d***. I can be, but not like this. I respect women. I'll take point on dates sometimes, like telling her that I always wanted to try out this restaurant or take her somewhere I think would be fun, etc. these lies/truths whatever, are MY choices but I choose to hope and make sure she has a great time above all. If she doesn't like it, we'll do it some other way, improvise if you will. But never take advantage or control a girl. This isn't the 15th century. Girls today can actually stand up for themselves and fight back for being mistreated by anyone. Yay for womens rights! ha ha I enjoy a girl with that inner strength, def a turn on.
Anyway, If a guy acts like this, he's going to a one way trip to losersville/lonersville/chauvinistica**holesville... you get the idea. A person like this deserves to be alone til he cleans up his act.
have I ever WANTED to act like that? no not really. I'm pretty laid back. However, I know a few girls that actually want me to act like that. Its like they don't want to think for themselves or something, so instead of the whole "what do you want to do? I don't know what do YOU want to do?" conversation, I've learned to just tell them how things are going to be... BUT, if they have other ideas, and I don't really care one way or the other I'll adjust the plans and rephrase it in that same "ok here's how its gonna be" attitude. If I DO care one way or another I'll stand my ground and say "we can do that next time".