I don't like bright lipstick or anything but to me bare lips with no color look a little boring. I have a gloss that is neutral colored it just makes my lips slightly darker and they look colored but very subtle, just slightly more rosy than normal. I've been told it looks good and it is not very obvious.
Guys do you like this better or do you like when girls wear nothing on their lips and keep them pale?
Girls what do you think? I think bright lip color is more of a "girl thing", one of those styles that girls appreciate but guys don't necessarily care for.
Depends. If you're playing up the eye, downplay the lips. Think smoky eye with lip color tint on. If you are wearing rouge on your lips, all you will need is some mascara and a neutral eyeshadow. Basically, you don't want to look like a drag queen, so pick one spot to play up, and let everything else look natural.
If you want to get my attentions, a little bit of color on the lips is good. Once I'm in love, I don't want anything on the lips (or face for that matter). I want to be able to gaze right into the face of my affection and know that there's nothing hiding her. Chap-stick, for the medical purpose of keeping your skin from cracking is fine, though.